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Straight from the Mouth of 'The Silver Locket' Sophia Bar-Lev

THE SILVER LOCKET by Sophia Bar-Lev is the author’s third novel. A former elementary and high school teacher, Bar-Lev now devotes full time to writing, her lifelong passion.  She is an avid reader, loves to travel, enjoys cooking and baking and spending time with her family.  Her vivid descriptions, tasteful humor and insightful treatment of human behavior render her novels not only entertaining but thought-provoking. 

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Questionnaire:

Thanks for letting us interrogate you!  Can you give us a go-for-the-gut answer as to why you wanted to be an author?

I’ve had this inner drive to write since I was a child, turning in my first ‘book’ of 8 pages to my second grade teacher!  I continued writing over the years despite other responsibilities and determined that once I got past raising children and holding down a job because I had to, I would do what I really loved which is to write.  Now I do and I love it!

Tell us (we won’t tell promise!) is it all it’s cracked up to be?  I mean what are the perks and what are the demands?

Writing can be an enemy as well as a friend; it can yield great pleasure and satisfaction one the one hand and discouraging frustration on the other; but in the end, most writers – myself included – keep on writing because it’s what we love. Writers, I think, have this drive to get something said and we don’t give up.

Which route did you take – traditional or self-published – and can you give us the nitty gritty low down on what’s that like?

I went the self-published route on the advice of a few people I respect.  It has its ups and downs.  The folks I worked with at Create Space were wonderful but I quickly learned that in the new paradigm of publishing, an author has to be a marketer as well.  That’s a real learning curve for many of us and demands a significant time investment.  However, my overall evaluation is that self-publishing is the way to go at present at least until such time as one’s book gets the attention of a big name publisher.  I like the control you keep over your work that self-publishing gives you, but distribution and publicity is the challenge.  However, there are some great book publicists out there to help.

Tell us for real what your family feels about you spending so much time getting your book written, polished, edited, formatted, published, what have you?

Fortunately for me, my children are all grown and married.  My husband is very supportive and only occasionally has he mildly complained when I lost track of time and forgot to start dinner!!  I do tend to get so engrossed in my writing that I lost all track of time.  He’s really good about it.  It would be very different if I still had children at home.

Are your plants actually still alive?

I laughed right out loud when I read this question.  My plants are alive but only because they’re low maintenance!!!

In writing your book, how did you deal with the phone ringing, your family needing dinner or your boss calling you saying you’re late?

Early on in the process, I turned the ringer off on my phone and learned to use an alarm clock for starting dinner.  However, I must confess, sometimes I’ve been so engrossed that the alarm clock went off and I didn’t hear it!  For true!!
My husband heard it at the other end of the house but I didn’t and it was on my desk!  Now that’s called super concentration I guess.

What was the craziest or insane thing that happened to you in the book publishing process?

After I uploaded the manuscript to Create Space, I panicked.  Was it good enough?  Did I go through it enough times to be sure there were no mistakes?
Would anybody like it?  Then all of a sudden I realized I forgot to include the Dedication in the final manuscript.  Fortunately, my account specialist was awesome and fixed it for me.

How about the social networks?  Which ones do you believe help and which ones do you wish you could avoid?

Facebook has helped as well as Twitter.  I registered on Goodreads and have had minimal response from there so I haven’t paid much attention to it.  There are hundreds and hundreds of books on Goodreads.  I felt lost in the crowd. But Facebook has several ‘groups’ for authors and those have been helpful.

Book sales.  Don’t you just love them (or lack of?)?  How are you making the sales happen for you?

Started out with Facebook, my website and some promotional emails but that wasn’t enough.  I searched out book publicists and hired the one I liked best.  She’s been great.

What is one thing you’d like to jump on the rooftop and scream about?

People who write reviews and you can tell they never finished the book! It’s so annoying.  And people who post sarcastic comments.  Whatever happened to old fashioned courtesy?  You can write a negative review without being mean.

Okay, too much sugar for you today!  Here’s a nice cup of Chamomile tea and come on over and sit under the cabana and watch the waves roll in.  Now…can you tell us what you love about being a published author and how all those things above doesn’t matter because it’s all part of the whole scheme of things and you wouldn’t have it any other way?

Sure can – I’ll give you a specific example.  Recently a reader contacted me on the website and invited me to have a SKYPE visit with her book club who had just finished reading and discussing one of my earlier novels.  It was the most delightful and encouraging experience any author could hope for.  The ladies were great; they asked superb questions and shared valuable insights they had gained including ideas I’d never thought of but that they’d derived from the novel.  It was thrilling. 

Knowing that readers get something valuable from my novels is the best reward of all.



Straight from the Mouth of 'Waiting for the Cool Kind of Crazy' M.D. Moore

Title: Waiting for the Cool Kind of Crazy
Genre: Fiction/Family Drama
Author: M.D. Moore
Publisher: Black Rose Writing

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MD Moore is the author of Waiting for the Cool Kind of Crazy, a family saga that spotlights the adult son of a paranoid schizophrenic mother.  He has worked as a therapist with the most chronically mentally ill patients in Washington State’s largest psychiatric hospital.  He lives in Gig Harbor, Washington with his wife and two teenage sons. 

Questionnaire:

Thanks for letting us interrogate you!  Can you give us a go-for-the-gut answer as to why you wanted to be an author?

I started writing this book when I was 37 years old (10 years ago).  At the time, I was working at a job that I didn’t like, for people I didn’t like.  I looked ahead to how I would feel at 50 still doing the same job and still not making much of a difference in the world around me.  Even if I couldn’t change jobs and write full time, I still wanted to say that what I did made a difference, that no matter what, I left something behind.  I knew that I could write so decided to try my hand at writing a novel.  Wow!  It was a lot harder than I thought it was going to be.  Almost everyone I meet tells me they have a book in them and that they should just “whip it out”.  My thoughts exactly until I actually sat down to “whip it out”.  Nine years and countless classes, workshops, critiques later, my novel was “whipped out”.  Now, standing close enough to 50 that I can now see the ear hairs sticking out, I’m glad I put in the work and am now working on the next.  I may still be stuck in the same business, but for now, that just pays the bills.  I’m now an author and am working to do what I can to make writing a larger part of my life.

Tell us (we won’t tell promise!) is it all it’s cracked up to be?  I mean what are the perks and what are the demands?

No, if you’re basing your expectations on what you see in the movies or hear from best-selling authors, it’s not all it’s cracked up to be.  It would be fantastic to sit in my cabin in the woods for weeks on end, bothered by nothing but the sounds of Mother Nature, and write the perfect novel with no pressure whatsoever.  As it is, I work full time with two teenage sons who play sports, don’t drive, and have countless requirements on my time.  It’s hard work from beginning to end and if you’re lucky, your muse will come around now and again and give you that second wind that makes writing so rewarding.  That said, and I know it sounds somewhat contradictory, there’s little else I’d rather be doing.  I love the process, hard work and all (maybe because of the hard work – my job is too easy) and look forward to sitting down and writing every chance I get.  It’s just not that glamorous at this stage.  I’ll get back to you when I buy my yacht and answer this again then.

Which route did you take – traditional or self-published – and can you give us the nitty gritty low down on what’s that like?

I was published by an small traditional press, Black Rose Writing.  While I know there are some excellent self-published books available, I wanted the support of a publisher to help do the work that I didn’t want to do.  As I mentioned above, I have to eke out time to get my writing in and having to produce a book and all the steps involved with that was more than I have time to do.  Getting published took a lot of perseverance with a lot of agents and publishers saying no before I found Black Rose.  Because I felt so strongly about being traditionally published, I went through a lot of disappointing months as the rejections flowed.  That part sucked.  When I was finally picked up, that felt incredible – all the work and hours that I had put into finding a publisher had finally paid off. 

Tell us for real what your family feels about you spending so much time getting your book written, polished, edited, formatted, published, what have you?

My family has always been supportive of my writing, but that said, I’ve always worked to assure that it doesn’t take too much of my family time.  I tend to get up before they do or stay up late to get the writing work done.  Because I need absolute quiet to write effectively, this schedule seems to work for all of us.

Do your pets actually get their food on time or do they have to wait until you type just one more word?

I have a cat, two dogs, two chinchillas, and two teenage boys.  Two of the previously mentioned are responsible for the other five.  I’ll let you guess which two.  The only animals I’m responsible for are my bees and they are fairly self-sufficient.

Are your plants actually still alive?

Plants aren’t my thing, but they are my wife’s and she tends to them.  The boys mow and water the lawn and she takes care of the plants. 

In writing your book, how did you deal with the phone ringing, your family needing dinner or your boss calling you saying you’re late?

As I mentioned, I write either very early or very late so I don’t have the interruptions mentioned.  I find that I can’t get into any sort of zone with distractions, especially ones that directly interfere with my writing.  I have been known to go sit in the car to write if the dogs are barking at squirrels or deer in my backyard just to have some quiet. 

What was the craziest or insane thing that happened to you in the book publishing process?

My road to publication can be likened to a freeway more than a tour of America’s back roads.  My journey was fairly devoid of anything particularly interesting or crazy or insane.  As my novel deals with mental illness, I guess that is the only really insanity I had to deal with.  The rest was fairly monotonous and mundane with a lot of perseverance.

How about the social networks?  Which ones do you believe help and which ones do you wish you could avoid?

I don’t know yet.  I just signed up as an author for Facebook (MD Moore author), Twitter (@mdmooreauthor), and Instagram (mdmooreauthor) yesterday.  I’ll have to get back to you on that one.

Book sales.  Don’t you just love them (or lack of?)?  How are you making the sales happen for you?

I have a wonderful publicist in Maryglenn McCombs who is working to get the word out about my book.  I have mostly sold to family and friends so far (my book came out earlier this year), but am now working hard to get the word out about my novel.  People won’t buy what they don’t know about.  Getting out there is not exactly in my comfort zone so honestly, this has been the hardest part about being an author that I’ve had.  I feel that writing will be a journey and believe that book sales will come once my dues are paid.

What is one thing you’d like to jump on the rooftop and scream about?

If you’re referring to a good scream, it’s that I’m now a published author.  That took several years of my life and a lot of nose to the grindstone to make that happen with nothing more than the belief that I could do it.

If you’re referring to a bad scream, it would be for the time it took to get to this point.  I queried a lot of agents and publishers before finally getting picked up.  I knew I wrote a good book (I was a finalist in a large, national writing contest where I received impeccable reviews) that had market appeal, but because I lacked writing credentials and a strong platform, I was soundly rejected often.  I understand why this is so after talking with so many agents about the process, but it is the most difficult part of the process for a new writer.  Even after being published, I still want to vent about the whole process.

Okay, too much sugar for you today!  Here’s a nice cup of Chamomile tea and come on over and sit under the cabana and watch the waves roll in.  Now…can you tell us what you love about being a published author and how all those things above doesn’t matter because it’s all part of the whole scheme of things and you wouldn’t have it any other way?

What I love about being an author…hmmm… well, it isn’t about the fame and the money (yet).  I guess what I appreciate most about being an author is that I have something to show in my life that made a difference, even if it’s just to me.  I have never worked so hard for so many years towards one singular goal.  I look at my book sitting on my shelf with an actual book cover (not the binder that I squeeze them in) and I am proud of all the work that it took to get it there.  I feel that it set a great example for my boys about the importance of perseverance and hard work in this life.  I’m now working on my second novel and believe, like I believed when I was writing the first, that this process should go much more smoothly the second time around.  I may be fooling myself, but I feel that one almost needs to do that to get through the process.  The way I look at it, the years are going to pass anyway (God willing) so I may as well do something useful with my time.  I can catch up with my TV shows anytime.  And through all the muck traveled, the coolest part of being an author is that, at the end of the day, at the end of my life, I get to say that I’m an author and no one ever gets to take that away.



Straight from the Mouth of 'Fantastical' Marija Bulatovic

Marija Bulatovic was born in the 1970s Yugoslavia immigrated to the Chicago land area, just ahead of the 1990s Yugoslav wars and the breakup of the country.

Marija has spent 15 years working in hi-tech industry and is an accomplished business professional driving enterprise business with Fortune 500 companies.

She currently lives in Seattle with her husband and son-who was the catalyst for FANTASTICAL.

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Questionnaire:

Thanks for letting us interrogate you!  Can you give us a go-for-the-gut answer as to why you wanted to be an author?

While I didn’t set out to pursue career as an author, I was moved to do so after the birth of my son.  FANTASTICAL is a legacy to my son, as his birth was the catalyst for the book. 

These stories were born with my son.  Uncertain upon entering a wholly new phase of life, I sought wisdom and enlightenment – and a break from the daily routine of feedings, lack of sleep, and disorientation.  I was in search of something that would lift my spirit, make me laugh, and transport me, if only for a moment, to another, less tangible, place and time. 

While the world in which these stories unfold no longer exists, I still cling to the many lessons it taught me.  Because of my fantastical childhood, I know in my heart that life is much more than a sum of mundane survival activities.  I know that it’s fluid, magical, brimming with love and connection.

This book was indeed the respite I needed.  It freed my mind to roam the wild landscape of a bygone era and lifted me on the wings of Balkan stardust.  I hope it will do the same for my readers.  My hope is that these stories amuse and transport my readers, sustaining them on their journey as they have me on mine. 


Tell us (we won’t tell promise!) is it all it’s cracked up to be?  I mean what are the perks and what are the demands?

Great question and IT is different for each author based on their expectations. As for me, IT is all it’s cracked up to be and I’m enjoying the journey.  Just to bring a book project forward and have it published is a huge personal and professional accomplishment and to be able to talk about it and bring it to the broader audience is wonderful and very rewarding. 

Which route did you take – traditional or self-published – and can you give us the nitty gritty low down on what’s that like?

I chose to self-publish.  FANTASTICAL is a work of passion and a very personal and dear project to me.  As such, I was interested to personally and deeply become involved in all aspects of publishing, from identifying the right experts to edit, illustrate, layout, and print the book to working with a tremendously talented publicist to bring it to light. 
Self-publishing is enormously labor and time intensive, but also very rewarding and profitable, assuming one is able to make investments to get the book to the finish line.
The pros are that you, as an author are 100% in control of your book and the every aspect of it.  You are the final decision maker and owner of the outcomes-good and bad. It’s a wonderful opportunity to merge one’s creative talents with flawless execution.  It does require much self-discipline and hard work, but it’s also a rewarding process.  While the world of self-publishing tools and services can feel like a maze, once the author understands them, they are generally easy and efficient to use.
The cons are that you have to invest money, time and energy to personally research and identify everything that shapes the book: editors, publicists, designers, printers, distributors, etc.  This is no easy task and authors can feel discouraged by it and by the long road ahead.  The self-publish path also requires that you make personal investments or raise money to fund your book project-which done right, is not an inexpensive proposition. 

Tell us for real what your family feels about you spending so much time getting your book written, polished, edited, formatted, published, what have you?

Great question and self-publishing a book is definitely a commitment! My family was extremely supportive along the way.  Specifically, my wonderful husband, Gerry Miller, and my parents, my eternal guides and strength, Smiljka and Ljubomir Bulatovic, were extremely encouraging, reading and re-reading the stories, critiquing, asking thoughtful questions, reviewing designs and all-around cheering me on.  Also, my broader circle of family, especially my wonderful in-laws KyungAe Bea and Ralph Miller, were very generous with their time and feedback. And of course, my mentor, Joe Keller, and a number of dear friends cheered me on every step of the way!

This is for pet lovers.  If you don’t own a pet, skip this question, but do your pets actually get their food on time or do they have to wait until you type just one more word?

No pets hereJ but I love animals.

This is for plant lovers.  If you don’t own a plant, skip this question, but if you do, are they actually still alive?

Yes, I own a number of plants, some of which were sitting on my desk as I was writing or making directional decisions about FANTASTICAL! Just looking at them during the writing process provided me with a sense of calm and when I needed a break, I loved watering them and rewarding their peaceful inspiration.

I currently have a beautiful jasmine plant at my home which is always a reminder of my childhood, these stories, as its scent prominently figures in FANTASTICAL.

In writing your book, how did you deal with the phone ringing, your family needing dinner or your boss calling you saying you’re late?

There are certainly many distractions to writing or any other form of work.  I did most of my writing during my baby’s naps, when the house was quiet and when I had the best ability to focus. 

On the other hand, knowing that there would be distractions, I would plan around those, block time on the calendar for writing exclusively and put 100% of my energies toward FANTASTICAL during this time.

It’s definitely a balancing act!

What was the craziest or insane thing that happened to you in the book publishing process?

The fact that a lot of FANTASTICAL was envisioned and created while nursing my baby is probably the craziest thing about the project! Much of it at night too! 2am, 4am feedings…

How about the social networks?  Which ones do you believe help and which ones do you wish you could avoid?

I’m not far down the social networks path yet, so can’t comment from experience if one is better than others. 

However, I am a networker and a connector by nature, so I’m reaching out to everyone is my broad circle of friends, family and associates letting them know FANTSTICAL is out, encouraging them to read it and if they like it, review it and share the good word with others.

Book sales.  Don’t you just love them (or lack of?)?  How are you making the sales happen for you?

I’m just starting out, but it’s very nice to already have book sales! It’s a good tangible validation of 2 years of deep personal investment. 

Especially, as a self-publishing author sales are very important and a way to sustain the project. 

That’s also a beauty of self-publishing, once you are published, the revenue is yours! (minus printing, distribution costs, but NO publisher revenue share)

What is one thing you’d like to jump on the rooftop and scream about?

I’d like to encourage anyone who’s looking for a little magic, a break from the mundane, a pinch of humor in their lives to pick up FANTASTICAL and transport themselves, for a moment, into a world that has vanished from the map but not the mind and open themselves up to magic in their own lives! 

Okay, too much sugar for you today!  Here’s a nice cup of Chamomile tea and come on over and sit under the cabana and watch the waves roll in.  Now…can you tell us what you love about being a published author and how all those things above doesn’t matter because it’s all part of the whole scheme of things and you wouldn’t have it any other way?

Publishing and especially self-publishing a book is a major accomplishment, professionally and personally.  It’s very rewarding.  My journey as an author is just starting, I’m thrilled for it and am happy to have put good energy into the universe via these stories! Hope my readers enjoy it as much as I do! Cheers!